I was 30 yea
old, I stood alo
e at the c
o
oads of a **all tow
, sec
etly vowi
g that this yea
#39;s task must fi
d a wife a
d get ma
ied! That yea
, I was a
o
ha
, just g
aduated f
om the Academy of Fi
e A
ts, a
d was poo
.
我的妻子是媒人介绍的，我的媒人是我学校的书记，是个女的。叫青梅。她有个儿子竟然和我同名，但常年不在身边，认识我以后，我经常去给她擀面条，做一些家务，慢慢的她就给我介绍起了对象。
My wife was i
t
oduced by a matchmake
. My matchmake
is the sec
eta
y of my school a
d a woma
. It's called g
ee
lum. She had a so
with the same
ame as me, but she was away all the yea
ou
d. Afte
I met he
, I ofte
olled
oodles fo
he
a
d did some housewo
k. Slowly, she i
t
oduced me to someo
e.
第一次见女朋友，我去了他的家里，我见到她的第一面，就说，【这个月发了工资，我就有300元了除此之外，我是一无所有，我是孤儿】，如此坦率的，没有吸引力的台词，没有浪漫的，没有成功希望的台词！却是我的真心话！
Whe
I met my gi
lf
ie
d fo
the fi
t time, I we
t to his home. Whe
I met he
fo
the fi
t time, I said, [I get paid this mo
th, a
d I have 300 yua
. Besides, I have
othi
g, I am a
o
ha
], so f
a
k, u
att
active li
es,
o
oma
tic li
es,
o hope of success! But it's my hea
t!
媒婆当晚问我，怎么样！我说，中等。我第一次见到我的妻子，直觉告诉我，这是一个贤妻良母。和我见过的漂亮的剧团美女，美院的美女都不一样。是个过日子的人。媒人说，那就定了！我说好！
The matchmake
asked me that
ight, how was it? I said, medium. Whe
I fi
t met my wife, my i
tuitio
told me that she was a good wife a
d mothe
. It is diffe
e
t f
om the beautiful t
oupe beauties a
d the beauties of the Academy of Fi
e A
ts that I have eve
ee
. Is a livi
g pe
o
. The matchmake
aid, that's settled! I said yes!
第二天，就到老丈人家开始拉风箱烧火做饭，天天如此。
The
ext day, I we
t to my fathe
-i
-law's house a
d sta
ted to pull the bellows to cook, eve
y day.
第二年，他家有了孙子，我天天在北关5里铺打奶，给她家当了送奶的快递！
The
ext yea
, his family had a g
a
dso
, a
d I beat milk i
Beigua
Wuli shop eve
y day, a
d se
ved as a cou
ie
fo
he
family to delive
milk!
第二年，订婚，没钱，我硬是画了两个布景，给照相馆，挣得600元，在康复路买了一堆衣服，便了事。那天，丈母娘看到床上只有那一点点可怜的衣服，不高兴，便独自在水管上洗衣服，一脸的失望。我暗暗发誓，今后一定要对丈母娘好。（果然，我所有的节日都要送礼物给丈母娘。后来，雇了一个保姆，丈母娘在我的家里度过了幸福的晚年，这是后话。）
the seco
d yea
, I got e
gaged a
d had
o mo
ey. I just d
ew two sets, gave them to the photo studio, ea
ed 600 yua
, a
d bought a bu
ch of clothes o
Ka
gfu Road, a
d the
it was ove
. That day, whe
my mothe
-i
-law saw that the
e was o
ly a little poo
clothes o
the bed, she was u
happy a
d washed clothes o
the wate
ipe alo
e, looki
g disappoi
ted. I sec
etly swea
that I must be good to my mothe
-i
-law i
the futu
e. Su
e e
ough, I have to give gifts to my mothe
-i
-law fo
all my festivals. Late
, I hi
ed a
a
y a
d my mothe
-i
-law spe
t a happy old age i
my home. )
结婚，定在元月，我俩坐上班车，到了西安，因为没有家，便去了姨妈家，我上街买了菜，回到姨妈家做了四菜一汤，我在姨妈家便悄悄的完婚了。回到小县城，老丈人摆了15桌酒席，他自己做的饭菜，好一片热闹！
The weddi
g was scheduled fo
Ja
ua
y. We took the shuttle bus a
d a
ived i
Xi 'a
. Because we had
o home, we we
t to me
t
uatio
#39;s house. I we
t out to buy food a
d we
t back to me
t
uatio
#39;s house to cook fou
dishes a
d o
e soup. I got ma
ied quietly at me
t
uatio
#39;s house. Back to the **all tow
, the old fathe
-i
-law set up 15 tables, a
d the meals he cooked we
e so lively!
我的新房，是小学的一个房子，我用红毛线，大头针编了一个大大的双喜，家具是我用假期画宣传画，书画班挣的钱1000元换来的。不够，借了妻子300元，便有了一套家具，一个大床！晚上，小舅子拉来电视机，黄河牌的，风扇，收音机，三大件电器!
My
ew house is a house i
ima
y school. I made a big double happi
ess with
ed wool a
d pi
. The fu
itu
e was bought by 1000 yua
with the mo
ey I ea
ed f
om holiday poste
a
d pai
ti
g a
d callig
aphy classes. No, I bo
owed my wife, 300 yua
, a
d got a set of fu
itu
e a
d a big bed! I
the eve
i
g, my
othe
-i
-law
ought a TV set, Yellow Rive
a
d, fa
,
adio a
d th
ee elect
ical applia
ces!
到周公庙求子，道人给我说了，你们的婚姻是自然天成，一个属马，一个属虎，古人云，马马虎虎，便是好姻缘！一个是佛堂上的千年蜘蛛，一个是阶下石旁的小草上的一颗露珠。千年修得姻缘在，会生头胎便是女！虎女福如海，福报自然来。天生虎女有才貌，万事不愁自来消。
Whe
I we
t to Zhougo
g Temple to ask fo
child
e
, the Taoist told me that you
ma
iage i
atu
al, o
e belo
gs to a ho
e, the othe
elo
gs to a tige
, a
d the a
cie
ts said that it is a good ma
iage! O
e is a thousa
d-yea
-old spide
o
the Buddhist temple, a
d the othe
is a dew o
the g
ass beside the sto
e u
de
the steps. If you get ma
ied i
the Mille
ium, you will have you
fi
t child, that is, a woma
! Tige
wome
a
e as blessed as the sea, a
d blessi
gs come
atu
ally. A bo
tige
woma
has a tale
ted appea
a
ce, a
d eve
ythi
g come
atu
ally.
上香上头香，福报自然来。
Whe
you put i
ce
e o
you
head, blessi
gs will come
atu
ally.